i was talking at a recent band "thing" with a fellow horn player and we got talking about relationships in bands! theres 2 married couples within our band, and i've realised that over the number of years theres been so many relationships between band members! the one thing ive noticed is i've always dated a musician!! so, who's going to admit to fancying that back row cornet, or the 2nd bari? (i had too, that back row cornet is now playing sop, and we've been seeing each other for nearly 3 months!!) thanks kate.