I was having a chat with a good friend last night and we think we may have found the basis for the perfect relationship we all hope to find at some point in our life. While going over good and bad past relationships we have found a striking common factor and while it is completely about bedroom activity, I think its acceptable for the forum. We believe the basis for a good relationship is the way you sleep and found the following common factor. The best relationships either of us have been involved in are ones with people who compliment our sleeping position, he for example is someone who lies on his left hand side and prefers the left hand side of the bed, his best relationship was with someone who slept on their right hand side on the right hand side of the bed. This meant they slept back to back but were both happy with the situation. Another of his close freinds sleeps on his right hand side as does his current partner, he prefers the left hand side of the bed and is a genuinely affectionate chap whereas she prefers the right and is a very affectionate gal but not as openly or outwardly. This results in him being able to lie behind her and give her a cuddle as they sleep. My preference is sleeping on my left on the right hand side and my ex was a left side of the bed but right side of the body sleeper. The meant when waking up you were face to face. All these various combinations seep to tesalate in one way or another and when we compared them to the worst relationships we had encountered we found that without even knowing it one or t'other in a relationship would change their sleeping position to accomodate the other person, this is clearly the route of all evil in a relationship. Any one got any money to fund my reserarch into this or even any comparisons they can add from past / present experience?