It has come to my attention that people are mistaking tubafran for a person of the female persuasion. This is slightly worrying as this would make me a lesbian! I know he's all handbags at dawn but..... Anyway, I would like to know about other band couples. In my band there are three within band and the majority seem to consist of mature men and younger women. Is this a trend in other bands? Are there no young men in banding? are old band men attractive?