I've just got a new bow-tie, not an elastic-pre-made-type one, but one that you have to tie yourself. Thought it would look smarter than my scabby elastic-pre-made-type one. Problem is, I havn't got a clue how to tie the ****** thing! The instructions are useless, I have also looked on the net, to no avail! Can anyone help? Clear and concise instructions would be nice!!!