shud it b that a band can sack u if ur not 100% attendance?, shud banding b more like an occupation rather than a hobby?, shud band b so important that it runs ur life, leaving u no time 2 do other things? duz any of u feel that if u miss a rehersal, u might lose ur seat the next day?, do u feel that if u dont practice enuff, u might lose ur seat immediately?, does banding pressure u in2 doing stupid things? do u feel band has 2 take top priority over everythingelse, just because the band says so?, or implies it? every1 plz b honest with this subject, it is currently something which is badly bugging me, and plz no stupid answers like "if u feel that way, quit banding", or "if bandings so bad, kill urself", etc, those msgs i will get deleted by an admin. or mod.